Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Choosing It

At work right now I’m teaching a group on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy – the relationship between your thoughts, feelings, and actions. The last two weeks I have been focusing on helping the kids decide to make a choice to actively engage in actions or activities that create positive feelings and thoughts that enable them to avoid their habitually negative behaviors. That sounds confusing, but it’s simple…. If you engage in activities that make you have happy feelings and thoughts you’ll be more likely to engage in more positive behaviors and have more happy thoughts and feelings and the cycle will continue. Makes sense, right? Yes, but it also seems like a really hard concept for a lot of people to grasp.
I’ve had a lot of fun reading about this because it’s something that I’ve been obsessed with my entire “adult” life – how can I be happy, or feel more fulfilled in my life, right now. Not five or ten or one year down the road but right now. It’s something I’m constantly grappling with, discussing, and thinking about. I like to think of happiness as being something I have control over and something I’m making active decisions to have in my life. So, as I’ve been encouraging the boys at work to think of activities they can participate in to feel more fulfilled I’ve been thinking of things I do that make me feel this sense of contentment or happiness in my own life. Are you ready for it? Because it’s a long list… spending time with Davis (duh), watching RW/RR Challenge (obviously) and The Bach, training for our annual relay race, going out to dinner, creating things, lunch dates with friends, Sunday dinners, winning big $$ in hearts tournaments, reading good books, learning something new (currently skiing), coming up with fun YW’s activities, having a good session with a kid at work, cuddling with Lyla, InstaGram, concerts, singing in my car, long baths, girls nights, project days with my mom, holding my nieces and nephews, chick- flicks, etc. the list goes on and on, and it doesn’t really matter what’s on it but it’s good for me to look at to remind myself that I have the control to be happy at the end of the day, and if I’m not happy I need to do something to change it.

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Time Apart

It's been over five years since I've talked to Davis every day. We aren't talking a little "how's it going" every day. We're talking constant texts, tweets, emails, 30 second phone calls, and instagrams along with hours of nonstop talking every night. That's why it's hard for me when we're apart and let's face it, we do our share of time apart. Last week Davis was in Korea for 5 days, then I went to St George without him for the weekend and now he's in NY hanging out with all of our besties without me. It's crazy how even when I'm having the time of my life, if we are apart, I'm always counting down the hours until I see him again. I guess I'm lucky I found somebody I never ever ever get sick of and am always dying to tell him the tiniest part of my days. I just wish time didn't move so slow when he's away. Hurry up and get back here. We miss you.

Friday, December 23, 2011

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Lots and Lots of Reasons

to dress up this week....

Monday, December 12, 2011

Let the Celebrating Begin (or continue)

This weekend was packed full of Christmasy fun. Friday we dressed up in our best. Saturday D and I did some Christmas shopping. Sunday D gave a thought and sang in a fireside one of our friends organized. He of course blew the crowd away. I got a good one. Here's to more celebrating this week!

Tuesday, December 06, 2011

Busy Saturday

On Saturday I went up to my mom's and we sewed like crazy the entire day. We made three stocking out of old sweaters, the triangle banner (one for both of us) and the banner across the window. I also started on another little something. If I finish it I'll show you what it is....

Thursday, December 01, 2011

The Week of Thanks

The week of Thanksgiving we ate a lot with family and friends, had sleep overs with family and friends, had hearts tournaments ( I won $100!), took naps, and then I worked on Sunday... Just the usual. It was real nice to have Thursday and Friday off though.

Bleach, Dye, Sparkle, Decorate

We are in the middle of craft season and I am working on projects three days this week! So excited about all of them. On Tuesday I made some baby trees with some very hardcore crafters. I love how they turned out...